We already have a dynamic system for managing static group management.
Use it for the disabled group so that the rules for managing the members
are not different.
Also, update the disabled list to match reality.
Also, Update docs because hosts are no longer groups
The upstream OpenStack Inventory in Ansible was fixed to no longer
return each cloud host as its own group unless there are duplicates for
the host in question. This means it's no longer the right thing to do
to put hosts into disabled:children - disabled is just fine.
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